Curses. They’re rather fun in fiction. As someone who has
written a book featuring a cursed pearl, I’m the first to admit that I like the
Gothic, spooky element of a curse story, especially as the nights draw in
towards Halloween and the ghosts start to gather.
However, I have a different attitude towards real-life
family curses. They make me feel pretty uncomfortable because these are real
people the curses refer to, not fictional ones. Someone might get hurt. And
really… Can they possibly stand up to the light of historical enquiry?
One of the biggest, spookiest and most notorious family
curse stories that pops up every so often (I
was reading about it again only
yesterday) is the so-called curse of the Craven family of Ashdown Park. When it
comes to family curses this has all the classic elements; a heartless nobleman
who gets a maidservant (or gypsy girl, depending on which version you read)
pregnant, casts her out and is cursed for his cruelty. The curse itself is
blood-curdling in its threat: That no son and heir to the title shall outlive his
mother. And it comes true, striking down
each generation of the family with death and destruction.
Except in one generation this doesn’t happen. Or maybe in two.
Or three… Well, you can see where I’m going with this. Can we talk the incidence of illness in any
given historical era? Or the dangers of war? Perhaps not, because that would
spoil the story... Well, I’m going to do it anyway because I'm a spoilsport.
What is the truth behind this apparent curse that no son of
the Craven family would outlive his mother? Well, first it’s a bit vague, isn’t
it? The Craven family has produced a
great many sons across all branches of the family over the years and plenty of
them have outlived their mothers. So for convenience sake the curse has been
interpreted as “no heir to the title shall outlive his mother” which is a lot
easier to check. And if you do check, you’ll find that there is no historical
basis for the story of the curse. Not one reference. The first mention of it is
in The News of the World in the 1980s.
Never mind. Let’s look at the actual detail behind this
claim because it could be true anyway.
If we start with William, First Earl of Craven, who was
supposed to have been the philandering
nobleman who brought this on the family,
he was born in 1608 and died in 1697. His mother Elizabeth died in 1624, so he
outlived her by quite a long chalk.
William was succeeded as 2nd Lord Craven by the
grandson of a cousin. This William was born in 1688 and died in 1711. His
mother, Margaret also died in 1711, but in April to William’s October. Foiled
again.
William the 3rd Baron and Fulwar the 4th
Baron were brothers. They died in 1739 and 1764 respectively. Their mother
Elizabeth died in 1704 before both of her sons.
William the 5th Baron died in 1769. There is no
record of when his mother died.
William 6th Baron died in 1791. His mother Mary
also died in 1791. William predeceased her by 2 months. At last we’re getting
somewhere!
William, 7th Baron and 1st Earl of the
2nd Creation was born in 1770 and died in 1825. His mother, the
“beautiful Lady Craven” was alive and causing scandal until three years later!
William 2nd Earl was born in 1809 and died in
1866. His mother, the actress Louisa Brunton, had died in 1860. Oops! After
only 2 generations the curse fails again.
The second Earl’s heir was Viscount Uffington who was born
in 1838. He pre-deceased his father, never mind his mother, a not uncommon
occurrence. It was his brother George who went on to inherit the Craven
Earldom. Both sons were outlived by their mother Emily who died in 1901.
And it’s here that the story of the curse really kicks off
because it is the case that in the subsequent four generations the Dowager Countesses of Craven have outlived
the son and heir. Which all goes to prove…
Not very much in my opinion, especially as the 5th Earl was
badly wounded in the First World War which affected his health throughout the
rest of his life. However there are others who are more open to the idea than I
am and I’m sure they will carry on telling the tale of the wicked earl, the
pregnant maid/gypsy and the subsequent curse that has wreaked havoc for ten
generations. As for me, I’ll just keep looking for some historical evidence to
back up the tale and in the meantime wish the Earl of Craven (and his mother) a
long and happy life untroubled by these stories.